My bridal shower was almost 23 years ago.
This means 2 things:
I have been with my husband longer than I was alive not knowing him.
I am in serious need of more spoons. And a toaster oven.
I’ll never forget the comments from my aunts while I opened my ultra-absorbant dish towels, salad spinner and monogrammed water pitcher. First, the complete envy for dish towels was downright shocking. Their side conversations of wanting their own married-after-20 years- showers was bizarre. Aunt Mary said she could really use new towels while Aunt Karen agreed and added a new vacuum to the list of household desires. While friends added bows to my paper hat bonnet, I seriously pondered why on earth Aunt Mary and Aunt Karen didn’t just go to Bed Bath & Beyond and get themselves some new towels.
Fast forward nearly 23 years later and I am a wiser woman.
There are 2 reasons why Aunt Mary and Aunt Karen weren’t treating themselves to shiny new spatulas:
A mortgage
Kids
Oh, I’ll add a third reason - no online shopping in 1999.
When there is a monthly bill to keep a roof over one’s head, washing and rewashing the same three spoons because the other 13 in the set have mysteriously disappeared becomes normal. Paying for our kids’ survival outweighs the want for bath towels that actually dry a human body. And let’s face it, having to physically go to the store in the pre-online shopping era was just simply barbaric.
I say we throw ourselves our own Midlife Showers! Celebrate being married, surviving hot flashes, dealing with teenage hormones - hell, our own hormones! What’s on your registry? Keep an eye out for my list which may or may not include a gift card to help with the car insurance for my newly-licensed son.
Special note: In memory of my Aunt Mary who passed away 11 years ago and in honor of my Aunt Karen. These wonderful women are my mom’s sisters and were both a very special part of my childhood and growing up.
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